How to Delete Messages From Your iPad After 30 Days

To have your iPad delete old messages automatically, open Settings, tap Apps › Messages, tap Keep Messages (below Message History), and choose 30 Days. Conversations and attachments older than 30 days are then removed on an ongoing basis. Choose 1 Year to keep them longer, or Forever to turn automatic deletion off.

This guide covers turning on the 30-day setting, what it deletes, what to save first, how to delete messages by hand instead, and what to check if old messages stick around. The steps come from Apple’s guide to deleting messages and attachments on iPad and apply to iPadOS 18 and later. On older versions, Messages is listed directly in Settings rather than under Apps.

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How to Delete Messages After 30 Days on iPad

Open the Settings app.
Tap Apps, then tap Messages.
Scroll down to Message History and tap Keep Messages.
Choose 30 Days.
If your iPad asks whether to delete older messages, tap Delete to confirm.

Result: Keep Messages shows 30 Days, and messages and attachments older than that are removed. From then on, anything that passes the 30-day mark is deleted automatically.

Illustration of the steps to set an iPad to keep messages for 30 days — Illustration: the steps to set an iPad to keep messages for 30 days.

What the 30-Day Setting Deletes

Apple says that if you choose any option other than Forever, your conversations, including all attachments, are removed automatically once the time period passes. That covers photos, videos and other files in those threads, not just the text.

It keeps running. This isn’t a one-time cleanup. Messages keeps removing anything older than 30 days.
It can reach your other devices. If you use Messages in iCloud, Apple notes that deleting messages on your iPad deletes them on your other devices where Messages in iCloud is on.
It only affects you. Your contacts keep their copies of the conversation.

Illustration of what the 30-day Keep Messages setting does on iPad — Illustration: what the 30-day Keep Messages setting does on iPad.

Before You Turn It On

Because older threads disappear as soon as you confirm, take a minute to save anything you want to keep:

Save photos and videos from important conversations to the Photos app.
Screenshot texts you may need later, such as addresses, codes or receipts.
Check which conversations take up the most space first. Go to Settings › General › iPad Storage › Messages to see how much room messages and attachments use.

How to Delete Messages Manually Instead

If you’d rather choose what goes, Apple lists these options in the Messages app:

Delete a conversation: swipe left on it in the conversation list and tap the trash icon, or touch and hold it and tap Delete.
Delete several conversations: tap Edit, tap Select Messages, choose the conversations, then tap the trash icon and Delete.
Delete single messages: open a conversation, touch and hold a message bubble, tap More, select the messages, then tap the trash icon.
Delete attachments in bulk: tap the contact or group icon at the top of a conversation, tap a category such as Photos, tap Edit, then Select, choose the items and tap the trash icon.

Result: The messages you picked are removed, and everything else stays.

Messages you delete by hand go to Recently Deleted for up to 30 days, where you can recover them. To remove them for good sooner, open the menu at the top of the conversation list, tap Recently Deleted, select the conversations and tap Delete. Apple warns that this can’t be undone.

If Old Messages Don’t Disappear

Go back to Settings › Apps › Messages and confirm Keep Messages still says 30 Days.
Give it time. Removal may not be instant for every conversation, especially if your messages sync through iCloud.
Check your other devices. Apple’s support forums have threads from people whose older messages weren’t removed, so make sure the setting matches on your iPhone and Mac too.
Delete stubborn conversations by hand using the steps above.

Frequently Asked Questions

Can I get messages back after the 30-day setting deletes them?

Don’t count on it. Save anything important before you turn the setting on. A device backup made before the change may still contain the older messages.

Can I choose a different number of days?

No. The only choices are 30 Days, 1 Year and Forever.

How do I stop my iPad from deleting messages?

Go to Settings › Apps › Messages › Keep Messages and choose Forever. That stops future deletions but doesn’t restore messages that were already removed.

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